Mind ya own DOG Business!!

So, if you haven't heard of YAHOO ANSWERS, check it out. Its basically, if you have a Yahoo email acct. you can log on to Yahoo and ask a question, answer other peoples questions, rate answers and you gain points and levels and things. Sometimes this YAHOO ANSWERS if very helpful. Most the questions you type into google, the results usually come up with someone else's answered question from Yahoo Answers. So.. like many others i Use Yahoo Answers for my dog questions when i cna't find the answer by scrolling down the Google results page. But i have come to notice, from my expeience this year and last year, that when you ask DOG PREGANANCY questions.. people just ATTACK! The "Anti Puppy Brigade" comes marching out in a judemental rythm and just beats you down!!
"Why are you having a litter?!"
"You're so irresponsible!"
"Do you want your dog to die?!"
"Have fun with your last litter..."
"YOU SHOULD HAVE SPAYED YOUR DOG!"
"Go to the vet and get an Abortion right now!"
"Why are you bringing more unwanted junk into this world?"

..... .... ..... ..... ..... ..... REALLY?
PEOPLE ARE SO DEMENTED!!!!!!!!!!
Dogs get pregnant.. it happens! Just like people get pregnant! Help them out with their question! Don't attack them for having a litter!
And these ranting puppy trolls can't change anything anyways so they might as well shut it. I mean, people want puppies! Not old diseased half dead dogs from the pound.
I DO FEEL TERRIBLE that so many animals go to kill shelters, but seriously, there is another solution to fix that problem than to just STOP having puppies and Kill off dogs! Like, if NOONE breeds their dogs.. where do you think dogs ar egoing to go?!

Now i am not supporting that everyone run out and knock up your pup, there has to be restrictions.. there has to be consideration and control. Like if your dog has bad hips, or is a mutt, or does not better the breed.. don't breed it. Cause breeding something that isn't acceptable is like... incest.. too many defaults and bad blood.. things are going to go bad and we'll end up with mutant dogs that only live for 5 months...
Really what this post is about is how i hate how much people hate against the person asking for help about their dog's pregnancy.. its just sad really.. stop hating and just help!
They all just need to stop judging.. cause when a person asks a question they don't give you every detail about why they are asking or what they've done to prepare for the preganancy and research they've done. So stop it, you don't even know the person or what they've done to ready themselves for the pregnancy.
EXAMPLE: I asked a question, added in deatils really not needed just so i could avoid the hate, and BAM! they called me a BYB (backyard breeder) said i didn't care about my dog, told me to take her to the vet and spay her, told me to have fun with my last litter cause my dog was going to die, and said i was so irresponisble that people like me shouldn't even be allowed to have dogs  or animals.....
REALLY?
I just asked a question about my dogs temperature!
(And i think the fact that the question was about the temperature should show i love my dog because there are FEW ways to take a dogs temperature... so i bought a rectal thermometer.... and yea.. that shows love.... cause i had to put that in its 'place'.. and it wasn't pretty.. and then i had to clean it when it came.. out... yuck!)
And I should also be considered loving towards my pet, because i am ASKING QUESTIONS TO HELP MY PET! DUM IDIOTS! If i didn't like my dog, why would i care to ask?.. ridiculous..
END RANT!

Newport Thursdays

Beginning of April I decided I was going back to working 2 jobs. I just need to.

So once a week, every Thursday, 6-10pm I work at the Gym again.

Which is nice< i get to relax and just do simple paperwork. Catch up on bloggin. :)

AND!! One of my favorite things is a change in food!

The Blue Lemon in Highland actually has specials of the week and different soup de jours ! So its a wonderful change in my diet! Though every time i go over there its hectic and i end up working ....  for a lil bit.

Today's meal, Artichoke and Spinach Cheese Dip and Creamy Chicken soup!!! YUMMY!!

AWW! The soup tastes like Thanksgiving and the dip is always HEAVENLY!!
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The Best of Luck

Every since I got my beautiful new car from the Honda dealership I have had the WORST of luck!
I have gotten in much trouble at my job.
My boyfriend is always upset with me.
I got 2 speeding tickets!! (within 24 hrs)
I broke my toilet seat and my foot went into the toilet
I caused the tiniest car accident with the BIGGEST DAMAGE and they're saying i wasn't covered when it happened. and got another ticket
I cracked my phone.
Woke up at the FRIGGIN crack o dawn to file my almost late taxes and told i didn't need to do it this year
Crashed my dog into my windshield and cracked it
I forgot to help the poor boy take care of his pants so he ended up flooding the bathtub and the water ran all the way down to the furnace room and it stripping the walls of the rented house of its paint
And now when i again thought all was well........ wrong! in job trouble again!!
 WT-WHAT IS GOING ON!
Is there a mirror i broke and don't realize it?

Blue Moldy Lemon

To be frank and short.

My job went from being my favorite to being:

degrading

stressful

harsh

rude

demeaning

and all our ridiculous!!!!!!!!!!

The end.

Nothing Beats A Canadian Christmas!!

Usually my christmas with my family is PACKED FULL with tradition! but i feel like.. none of those traditions I had growing up were successfully executed this season....
I brought Jordan with me to experience an Easthope Christmas! But i feel like things were unorganized and monotonous....  Due to the nature of my eldest sister's marriage my niece and nephew were only able to spend time with me for a couple hours Friday night when Jordan and I arrived. And usually they would have spent the night and I would have seen then for the 3 days I was there.
Next my family plays an INSANE amount of games together.. and we played one... Sunday night... that's it.. one game... and it was kind of a game like Apple to Apples.. yeah, i hate that game....
And then my stepmom's nephew spent christmas with us... I mean... whaa? really? It was just weirdo-towne the whole time!
The Christmas breakfast was.. well it wasn't a complete mess that was prepared by everyone with everyone trying to squish at the table.. it was.. well.. buffet style and most of it was prepared the night before.... ick.... i have always loved the chaos of my house on christmas day... but .. there was none..... NONE!!!!! wthfrank!
And my gifts seemed.. not to be greedy but they seemed less important and less thoughtful... i usually would get stuff I'd tear open and play with immediately.. but i didn't get anything that i could be like"oh yeah! *rip* entertainment till christmas dinner!"
instead i had to watch everyone pla with their new ipods.... lol
and while that took place dinner was prepared in a conductive manner.. and everything was just so chill... and lame... and diner for some reason took like 3 hours to get ready! i mean really? Its probably because my dad wasn't in there the whoel time. HE"S A MAGICIAN IN THE KITCHEN! But ever since he got re-married... he isn't in the kitchen a whole lot.. and truth be told, i miss my dad's cooking.... :(
So it was FANTASTIC being home with my family...
but... we didn't do a whole lot together. I can almost honestly say that christmas at my mom's was better than at my dad's.. and that never happens.. but... there was more of that Special CHRISTMAS CHAOS that i love!!
The only real TRADITION that went ok was the dogpiling in the bed... where before we open stockings we all go cuddle up in one bed! Well there was 10 of us instead of the normal 5 so it was a challenge and i missed out on the first 15 minutes of it and it only last for 20 minutes (it usually lasts much longer..but we were on a schedule i suppose) and i missed it cause my boyfriend wouldn't get up and join.. so i sat next to him in his bed trying to get him to get up and come... i should have told him how important it was to me maybe he would have moved faster... no probably not... so i should have just left him in that bed of his.. but then i would have felt bad for not having him be part of that ONE tradiition.... mehh.... Next christmas.. no boyfriends... seriously though.... its much easier... especially when your boyfriend is kind of needy.....
So again i repeat the phrase I have been for last few/couple years that my dad has been re-married for,
"Mixed Families Shouldn't Do Holidays....."
Merry Christmas, Happy New Year

One Month Blogger

Apparently I have become a ONE MONTH BLOGGER......... I really should update more often; but my 2 jobs keep sme busy. And one doesn't have a computer that I can play on.. so that hinders my computer access. It also doesn't help that my new place has no internet yet, and that I left my laptop in Canada.. I have almost gone a month without it! EGAAHHH! Good thing my phone can browse or i'd go crazy!!!!!!!
And I have recently found I love following people on Twitter more than I like Tweeting.....
Why write music when you can just listen to a song right?
So yeah... basically this last couple weeks I have been kicked out of 2 houses, got a new place with 5 boys as roommates! Got a raise at one job. Went 2 days without water cause then city forgot to turn the water on! (Went through a lot of water bottles!)
Pulled over and questioned by police over the topic of a DRESSER.. omhllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll
and broke my phone. I am a genius!
Phone has insurance so i just need the screen fixed.
And besides that things are well. Now just have to get my next paycheque so i can finish Christmas shopping before Christmas! then i need to find a cheap way home for the holidays!
hmm so much to do!

the 7 steps: Gain, Do, Regret, Change, Fail, Lose, Repeat...

Have you ever NOT been yourself? I'm not talking about, "i'm just not feeling like myself today." I mean REALLY for a LONG time... you just haven't been you. And you can see and feel parts of you dying off and falling away. And when you're not yourself, you do things you would NEVER do. You think ways you'd NEVER think. You can't seem to fight off the same DEMONS you could have before. Before you lost .. YOU.

IF you lose a pet, you often replace it quickly and learn to love it the same as the old. 

IF you lose your cellphone, you instantly race down to the store and either get the same one or a new one. And then you have to reset it to your life once again.Which can often take awhile.

IF you lost your legs, they give you a wheelchair, or prosthetic legs. An adjustment you have to make.

*FOR any LOSS we have to LEARN how to COPE and to DEAL. To ADJUST*.

So, if you lost your sense of security... What would you do? How would you adjust?

A) Continue being afraid

or

B) Deaden the fear / choose to feel no fear

What if because you chose (A), along with it killed: trust, honesty

What if because you chose (B) and killed the fear, along with it killed: guilt, remorse

Now what kind of person would you become if you chose .. BOTH?

First (A), then (B)?

How long could this person last:

 in a relationship?

in a bad situation?

in a lie?

Just a little something I've been trying to process....
*The best way not to get your heart broken is to pretend like you don't have one.*